Sunday, September 30, 2012

Life of Little princess.part-14

Judge……………"court cannot permit you to take custody of your daughter, till age of eighteen she will stay with her mother. You are allowed to visit your daughter”.                                                          
I.…………………“Sir, My wife is a liar!  She talks like an opportunist. She is an ego manic.  She takes me for granted. She even use my daughter to emotionally black mail me and use her sex as weapon”!
Maya’s lawyer…..   “My lord, this is nothing but character assassination”!
I.…………………. "Sir, I got married eight years ago I know my wife inside out, more than anyone else in this world.  Sir, in my case my marriage is made as meat business.”                                      
Maya’s lawyer: “I object your honor!” Her husband is comparing marriage to meat business”.
Judge…………….."Objection over ruled ".                  
I... ………………..“Living with my wife is like living with an enemy.  First Get married, have children, find fault with husband, fight over silly things with mother in law then file divorce and get legal maintenance amount (alimony) and live the way she and her family wants.  Some people had developed this as an art.  In my case, I had a decent job when I got married to her.  My company had to close down due to the financial loss.  At the age of forty -eight I am unable to get a good job. Nobody wants to employ an old person like me for more than Rs.2500 p.m. with my align mother I am just Surviving in this world.  I will not be able to give my daughter a decent education. Therefore I humbly request you to permit me to put my daughter for adoption.  Somebody will be able to give her decent education and secured life.  I am willing to sign divorce paper so that my wife can live her life the way she wants.  My wife is also from poor family; even she is not in a position to bring up my daughter.  I once again humbly request you to permit me to put my daughter for adoption for the welfare and better future of my daughter.  I have nothing more to say.  (I broke down).
                                              After studying the case judge pronounces his verdict.
Judge.………….. “Considering the welfare and better future of your daughter I came to the conclusion. Since neither you nor your wife is interested in living together and due to poverty neither of you can raise your child so I hereby permit you to take temporary custody of your daughter and allow you to put her for adoption."                                                                                          
Maya’s lawyer:"Her husband had pledged Rs25, 000 worth of gold ornaments in the bank.  I want her husband to return her ornaments at the earliest".         
                                    Judge asked me to return her gold ornaments at the earliest. I had hand overRs.26, 000 and an authorization letter permitting my wife to collect her gold ornaments. I then gave our marriage Certificate to the judge.  The judge issued a letter authorizing me to take temporary custody of my daughter and for Subsequent adoption.                                                                                        
                         My wife came to me. She removed her wedding chain (mangalsutra) with Tears running down on her Cheeks.  I took it with my right hand and returned mangalsutra back into her hand and closed her hand. I gently and gave a pat on her hand.   Our only daughter stood as a silent spectator. I lifted my daughter in my arms…. ”Come on Sony; let’s go to papa’s home”. I carried my daughter in one hand and in other hand I had the custody documents of my daughter. Her brother came begging for my daughter.  I showed him court documents.  “No!  Maya will learn her lesson in hard ways.  My daughter’s future means everything to me.  Take care of your sister”.  I waved for an auto.  Someone clicked.                   
 On the other side of the verandah, wife’s ego does not permit her to beg for her daughter.  She was pleading with her parents asking not to allow me to take her Ammini away.  I carried my daughter into an auto. My daughter asked for her Mummy and started crying.  Fighting my tears back I held my daughter close to my heart. Auto took U-turn in the court premises from the corner of my eye I saw my wife stretching her arms at me and begged for her daughter.  “My daughter...Ammineeeee...” she then fainted .I shut my eyes tightly.
 At home Maya took Sony’s doll and wept inconsolably and started cursing herself.                                                                                                              
Later when judge went to his house he called on his wife. “Viji...I had committed a sin. An unpardonable sin, I had separated daughter from her mother.  A poor family case came up for divorce.  Neither the husband nor his wife could raise the child.  I had to order for child for adoption." He then went to the pooja room and asks lord Murugan for forgiveness. “O lord! Forgive me for the sin I had committed.  Whoever adopts the child must give her plenty of love and affection…" His voice choked with emotions.                                                                                                                 
                        After we had food at the restaurant I took Sony for shopping. I purchased dresses and toys for my daughter. In the evening we boarded train for Chennai.  “Sony you know, we are going to papa’s home.  Your nana will be waiting for you. Do you still remember mammy, mamma, Navin Anna, Raga and Sudha Kutty?
Next day morning we reached Chennai. At home my mother was waiting for us.  Now and then my daughter asked for her mummy and started crying.  She had a small circle of friends of her age.  All my neighbors welcomed her with open heart.  They all missed her for more than two years.  I made sure she was not missing her mother nor feeling lonely.  Therefore, I took couple of days off from work.  I was always with my daughter. At times she felt sad. She cried only when she thought about her mother.  Poor soul! I played only her favorite pogo channel on TV.  She spend time watching TV and playing with her little friends.      

Next day Photograph of Sony appeared along with headline in our national newspaper.                                                                   
Landmark judgment in child custody!” Judge allows poor father to put his daughter for adoption!!                                            
One day I was playing with Sony Gudiya .a man came to our house in Lord Krishna’s costume. He had his face painted in blue color with a crown on his head. He started singing in Telugu.  “Jaya govindam."… I gave him 50 paisa.
Lord Krishna …   “Sir, makeup costs more money”. He asked me for more money.
I…“Did I ask you to wear makeup?" I then called Achoo (A local dog I adopted when he was a pup). There was no sign of him. Lord Krishnan peeped into my house. He expected my wife to give him more money. He then started singing vigorously. ,”JAYA GOVINDAM…PARAMANADAM…! ”.
I Screamed “ACHOOOOO…” Achoo appeared from out of nowhere .I found him wagging his tail at the back of me and was eagerly waiting for my orders. Achoo looked up me and I winked at Lord Krishna. He got the clue. Lord Krishna took off, Achoo set after him; both of them ran around the playing ground, which was in front of my house. Achoo ran tugging at his veshty.
Sony…. “Papa man running, running Achoo biting, biting.” She told me in her broken English. Sony could not stop laughing. She literally went into Paramanandam. Started laughing with over excitement.                                                         
I saw Lord Krishnan running back to me. I caught hold of Achoo. Achoo looks satisfied with his performance. I give a pat on his back and put him on the chain. Lord Krishnan spread his veshty; I looked at his face through the torn veshty
Lord Krishna... “Sir, your dog tore my veshty,” he complained to me.
I……“Yeah, You missed your crown too!” I end up paying Rs.10 but it was worth for my daughter’s laughter, which I missed it for more than two years. We both had fun at the cost of ‘Lord Krishna’ and Achoo.                                               
One day I took my daughter to zoo. I pointed cubs playing joyfully with tigress. She enjoyed watching cubs playing with tigress for some time. She then started crying and asked for her mummy. I had no words for her whenever she asked for her mother so I took her to the monkey’s cage. Monkeys were making funny faces some of them were doing acrobats. However Sony was not interested. We visited some more cages and went back home without speaking.
Next day evening I took my daughter to Marina beach. She played with sand and sea for some time and ran all over the beach. After some time she became tired .she came back and sat with me. She watched parents playing with their kids joyfully with waves. She then started crying for her Mummy. After some times she asked me “Papa why can’t we live with my mummy”? I held her close and looked at horizon for answer…. Then I promised her that I would get her a good mummy. We left for home in silence.
At home she had her dinner early and slept with Nana. I started thinking..." if I marry a working woman I will be able to manage home. What would I do if my new wife does not like Sony? If she gives birth, will she love my daughter the same way "?  “Yes”, I have to put advertisement in paper for adoption of my daughter. For that I had to sell my TV. I sold my color TV and got Rs 3000. Next day I went to newspaper office and give advertisement for my daughter's adoption.
                                                                   For adoption
                                                               Healthy / Intelligent
                                                                C/o. the National,
                                                               P.O.Box: Chennai -2.
Seven years old Ajay asked his mother why Sony’s photograph was given in the advertisement.  His mother told him that her parents put her for adoption “may be they are very poor people. They might not be able to bring up her”
Ajay…“Mummy I like her. I need a friend, a friend for life!”
His mother asked him "What happen to your friend Nisha"?
Ajay…"She is mad! She beats me! At times she even bites me!”
His mother continued “And you're other friend, Swetha?”
Ajay... “She is too proud of herself. Egomaniac”! He showed a mocking face at his mother. Ajay's mother repeated his words. “A friend for life! Not a bad idea. I will write to Sony's father” In a cover Ajay put his photo and a small slip (request letter) in it and asked his mother to send it along with her letter to me.                                                                                   
Ajay's mummy took the newspaper and went to kitchen for cooking. Now and then she looks at the girl’s photo. Sony. What if I adopt this girl and mould it as my future daughter –in-law? She would be my perfect daughter-in-law. She finished her cooking and started writing letter.
After a week time I had collected twelve-reply letter from the newspaper office. I went through all the reply letters most of them from childless couple. Some of them want to change Sony’s religion for adoption; few of them offered me money. I found one of the letters with a small boy’s photo along with his mother’s letter. I had selected only three of the letters.